Notes from a year of dating software

Chat & roleplay

ourdream vs Candy AI vs Nomi

These are the three websites people write to us about, and they are three different answers to the same question. ourdream is built around the character looking and sounding like one person across everything it makes. Candy is the most polished version of the standard idea. Nomi is built for the long haul: memory, backstory, a companion that is meant to last.

The list

1. ourdream 9.9 Pictures, video, voice and chat that match

The closest thing to photorealistic I've seen in an AI companion website. OurDream AI sets the benchmark for image fidelity in AI companion websites, and its conversation engine backs up the eye candy with genuine staying power. The pricing stings, but nothing cheaper comes close to this level of visual polish.

$19.99/mo. Our card or Try ourdream

2. Candy AI 6.2 The polished all-rounder

Visual-first companion site where the pictures outshine the banter. Candy AI delivers the best image generation in its category, though the conversation layer feels more functional than intimate. At $5.99 monthly on an annual plan, it's a bargain for the visual-heavy crowd and a harder sell for anyone chasing emotional depth.

$12.99/mo. Our card or Try Candy AI

3. Nomi 7.4 The one built for years, not nights

The companion that actually remembers your birthday. And your ex. Nomi AI trades speed for something rarer: genuine continuity. If you want a companion that recalls your inside jokes from March, this is the website to beat.

$15.99/mo. Our card or Try Nomi

You asked

Which one should I try first?
ourdream for pictures and video. Nomi if you want something that grows across months. Candy for the safest, most polished take on the whole thing.

More from the Spot