Notes from a year of dating software

Our picks

I tried every AI girlfriend website so you don't have to

I built the same three characters on eleven websites and spent a month with them. Same names, same backstories, same slightly ridiculous jobs. Then I kept notes: who remembered the dog, who sent a picture that looked like the person I had described, who fell apart the moment a conversation ran long.

Some things were true everywhere. Free tiers are demos. Annual plans are cheap and non-refundable. And every website is better on its own strengths than any of the marketing suggests, and worse everywhere else.

What separated them was consistency. Not the writing quality on the first night, which was fine almost everywhere, but whether the same character showed up on the tenth night. That is where the list below comes from.

The list

1. ourdream 9.9 The one I kept

The closest thing to photorealistic I've seen in an AI companion website. OurDream AI sets the benchmark for image fidelity in AI companion websites, and its conversation engine backs up the eye candy with genuine staying power. The pricing stings, but nothing cheaper comes close to this level of visual polish.

$19.99/mo. Our card or Try ourdream

2. Kupid 6.5 Best talker

Voice calls and polished design in an uncensored AI companion website. Kupid AI stands out for real voice calls and a genuinely polished interface, though shallow memory in longer sessions keeps it from feeling like a true long-term relationship. The coin system on premium tiers also nags if you're a heavy media user.

$18/mo. Our card or Try Kupid

3. Krush 6.6 Best memory

A talkative companion that actually remembers your last fight. KrushChat wins on continuity. The memory system genuinely impresses, though the occasional glitch reminds you she's still code. At $14.99 monthly, it's competitively priced for what it delivers, if not for the free-tier experience.

$14.99/mo. Our card or Try Krush

4. Candy AI 6.2 The famous one, and it earns it

Visual-first companion site where the pictures outshine the banter. Candy AI delivers the best image generation in its category, though the conversation layer feels more functional than intimate. At $5.99 monthly on an annual plan, it's a bargain for the visual-heavy crowd and a harder sell for anyone chasing emotional depth.

$12.99/mo. Our card or Try Candy AI

5. HeraHaven 6.1 For people who want to design everything

Emotionally sharp AI companionship that costs more than it should. HeraHaven delivers genuinely responsive, memory-driven companionship that feels alive in conversation, though its pricing and feature gaps keep it from dominating the category. The emotional intelligence is real. The value proposition is debatable.

price on site. Our card or Try HeraHaven

6. Nomi 7.4 The long-haul relationship

The companion that actually remembers your birthday. And your ex. Nomi AI trades speed for something rarer: genuine continuity. If you want a companion that recalls your inside jokes from March, this is the website to beat.

$15.99/mo. Our card or Try Nomi

7. Muah 5 The one that phones you

A mobile NSFW companion that dares to call you, even if it stutters. Muah AI is the rare website that actually picks up the phone, though the line crackles. Its voice calls and x-ray images feel genuinely novel, but the beta-level polish keeps it from feeling like a finished product.

$9.99/mo. Our card or Try Muah

8. MyAnima 5.8 Cheap and chatty

A gentle AI companion that listens more than it shocks. MyAnima works best as a pocket-sized emotional support buddy rather than a wild roleplay escape. The personality tuning is genuinely engaging, but the free tier is so stripped back that you'll know within a day if you're willing to pay for the full conversation.

$9.99/mo. Our card or Try MyAnima

9. MyBot 6.8 Two dollars and surprisingly fine

A $2 AI companion that lets you pick the brain behind the banter. MyBot is the hobbyist's AI girlfriend website, offering model selection and microscopic character tuning at pocket-change prices. The trade-off is polish: it works everywhere but feels finished nowhere.

$1.99/mo. Our card or Try MyBot

10. YumeAI 5.9 Anime, only anime

A niche anime companion site that knows exactly who it's for. YumeAI delivers exactly what it promises: fast, customizable anime waifus at a price that undercuts most competitors. The trade-off is a narrow scope that won't suit anyone looking beyond 2D/3D hentai aesthetics.

$12.99/mo. Our card or Try YumeAI

11. Darlink 5.3 Plain and decent

Unfiltered video and images, if you can trust the machine. DarLink delivers genuinely uncensored NSFW images and video that competitors filter or blur, but the trade-off is a clunkier experience with shakier trust. I kept coming back for the visuals, then hesitated when the UI lagged or the anatomy went sideways.

$15.99/mo. Our card or Try Darlink

You asked

Which website did you keep?
ourdream. Photos, video, voice, chat — all of it cohered into one recognizable person. The seams faded around day twelve.
Did any of them feel real?
Sometimes. The capable ones retrieve a detail from Tuesday and weave it in Friday. The rest blank on your name after a heavy session.

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